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  from 2005-2006 School Year

Lawrence Special Services Overview
(Oct. 12, 2005)

Marie Luciano, Supervisor for Child Study Teams provided information on Special Education programs and services, and introduced two district professionals, an Occupational Therapist and a Learning Disability Teacher Consultant.

Child Study Team Presentations
A list of the child study team members, their school assignments and telephone numbers was provided and will be available at future ASK meetings. Click here to download PDF.

Occupational Therapist—Nancy Simon
Occupational Therapy involves determining where the child is struggling in the day-to-day school life and can include any activity, some examples: navigating hallways, putting on jackets, making friends, handwriting. Services are delivered in the classroom, often involving non classified children, small and large group settings, individually, on the playground, co-treatment with other specialists, sometimes in small groups.

Learning Disability Teacher Consultant (LDTC)—Pam Hernandez
A LDTC is required to have teaching experience as well as certification as a LDTC. This teaching experience helps in making decisions about what will actually work in the classroom. Testing is used as part of the evaluation as well as classroom observation of the child.

Intervention and Referral Service (I & RS)
This is a referral by a teacher when the teacher suspects a child is having some difficulty and wants assistance in determining the best way to work with the child. The teacher meets with an administrator, I&RS lead person and other invited professionals. The purpose is to provide early intervention and to try modifications for 6 weeks before meeting to determine the next step. Although this approach does not usually involve the parent, the parent can also make this request to the teacher.

DISCUSSION ON NEW PROGRAMS IN LAWRENCE TOWNSHIP:

ELLI
- ELLI provides pre-school education for a combination of classified, low income, and children chosen by a lottery. Dana Hice is the project director for this initiative.

Special Olympics - Special Olympics runs a 9 week program twice a year at the Middle School. The Fall program is already in progress. Mike Giesert and Lisa Quarry are the Special Olympic coaches.

Wilson Reading Program - Teachers in the Middle School and High School are certified in this structured, sequential, proven reading program. It is expected that additional teachers will become certified on the elementary level for next year. Although the district is providing for this training, during the certification year, the teachers are providing the instruction on their own time. For more information about the Wilson Reading program, visit www.wilsonlanguage.com.

Behavioral Intervention Strategies
(Nov. 11, 2005)

Sue Douglas, Lawrence Township Behavioral Specialist, gave a presentation on Behavioral Intervention Strategies for Parents and Teachers. ASK thanks her very much for leading the meeting, given the absence of our other scheduled presenter, who was unexpectedly unable to attend. Marie Luciano introduced Sue, who this fall was hired for the newly created position of Behavioral Specialist. She has spent many years here in the Lawrence Township school district, and brings a wealth of experience to her job, having served as Special Education Teacher, Resource Room Specialist, Self-Contained Classroom teacher, and in differentiated (2 teacher) classrooms. 

The position of Behavioral Specialist covers grades Pre-K to 8, six buildings, five days a week. (Mondays - Eldridge Park and Slackwood, Tuesdays - LIS, Wednesdays - Ben Franklin, Thursdays - LMS, Fridays - LES, and also where needed in priority cases.) She is a resource for teachers and students, regular and classified. Parents who wish to contact her can make a request via their case manager. You may also wish to contact her via email, at sdouglas@ltps.org.

The Behavioral Specialist can be instrumental in devising behavior plans and modeling behavior modification strategies for teachers. She can create task cards and individualized behavior contracts. Sometimes whole classes use a contract, which is signed by the entire class, with rewards they would like to get for the class (eg. pizza party, video, etc.) In order for rewards to be effective, for individuals or classes, the reward has to be something the child(ren) want and are willing to work towards attaining. Rewards can be pretzels, candy, a small toy, lunch with the teacher, a video/movie night, a sleepover, extra story time, etc. Coping skills, techniques for dealing with frustration, and organizational strategies are other examples of things she provides to students. 

The following is taken from a handout provided at the meeting:

GOOD TIPS FOR PARENTING SPECIAL NEEDS CHILDREN
1. Use positive reinforcement to increase positive behaviors.
2. Use immediate consequences to decrease negative behaviors.
3. Use token economies at home to help in following rules. (Use charts, chips, stickers to follow behaviors and create immediate rewards.)
4. Be proactive in your approach. (Create rewards and consequences and let your child know ahead of time what is expected.)
5. Keep directions simple. (Give only one or two directions or instructions.)
6. Use eye contact. (When giving instructions and directions keep the child's eyes on your face.)
7. Review your expectations often. (Make sure they are appropriate for your child's emotional level as well as their chronological age.)
8. Create proactive systems to help your child. (Label drawers, notebooks and clothing. Use charts to remind them of their routines. Keep things the same, keep things simple, post routines.)
9. Look for talents. (Look for their creativity, their musical ability, and their artistic ways.)
10. Keep your home as structured as possible so your child knows what to expect. (Routines and structure make your child's life more orderly.)

The meeting ended with an informal question and answer period along with a discussion of suggested topics for future ASK presentations. Bullying, sibling relationships, bus/transportation issues, and transition planning (from K-3 to Intermediate, from Intermediate to Middle, from Middle to High School, Vocational Training, Career Planning were some of the options mentioned. Thank you to all those who attended the meeting and our special thanks go to Marie Luciano, Sue Douglas and Laurie Kruger Azer for presenting and participating.

How to Handle A Bully & Peaceful Parenting (Feb. 8, 2006)
 
Naomi Drew, a conflict resolution expert spoke about "How to Handle Bullying and Peaceful Parenting." Ms. Drew is author of several books, serves as a consultant to school districts, leads seminars and runs parenting courses. Her latest book is Hope and Healing: Peaceful Parenting in an Uncertain World. She began ASK's meeting by telling parents that we need to help build our child's resilience.

Believe in your child. Help them capitalize on the talents and intelligences that they have, what they succeed at. Are they good at remembering facts, computers, art, music? Focus on their strengths, build on them and have them focus on them as well. Keep a running list of what they are good at, keep adding to it, even small things. Have the child add to it. Special interests can lead to special talents.

Reframe negative messages that they make to themselves. When they fail a test, help them to say, "This (subject) is hard for me, but _____ is so easy for me, I am good at... Is there something I can do differently to do better? Messages should be reframed so they are not permanent, pervasive or personal. ( I may not succeed at this moment...) Isolate the problem are, this is something that can change, there is not something innately wrong with me.

Provide simple mantras (instead of I am stupid, to I am strong, I can succeed, I will succeed at something else.)

Model resilience and optimism. Model it, teach it, reinforce it, expect it. Reinforce every success. Spell it out specifically. Ask child "how did you feel accomplishing that, how did you feel succeeding?" Hold up a mirror to their most positive self.

Seek out role models with similar challenges. Help children learn about others who have been successful and help them to identify with them. 

Teach pro social skills, how to calm oneself, anger management, conflict resolution.

7 Steps for Kids When Faced with a Bully
1. Stand up tall, look person in the eye, say firmly "Leave me alone" or "Cut it out" Stand in the power stance, chin forward, feet apart, standing tall.
2. Take slow deep breaths and repeat a calming statement to self like "I can handle this"
3. Walk away with head held high. Think "Your words are meaningless to me, you have the problem, you are mean, hurtful, insecure.
4. Don't take their words personally.
5. Join other people. Being alone can make you a target.
6. If what you've tried hasn't worked, tell and adult. (Not in a tattling way, say "I've tried handling this myself but it is continuing to bother me, etc."
7. Join forces with others to help other kids who are being bullied.

Naomi provided parents with several helpful handouts. These included:
Eight Keys to Peaceful Parenting
Family Meetings
Cooling Off
The Win/Win Guidelines for Resolving Conflicts
12 Steps to Help Your Kids Stop Fighting
Fostering Compassion
Managing Anger
Peacemaking Resources

Please visit www.learningpeace.com for more information.

Power Advocacy for Your Special Needs Child (Mar. 7,2 006)

ADVOCACY does not mean ADVERSARIAL. Education and knowledge yields confidence and collaboration. The result??? Ultimately... the best academic experience for your child. Advice on advocating for your child, understanding test scores, record keeping and how to approach IEP meetings was presented by guest expert Martha Lisa Flinsch. 
Handouts included:
What I Have Learned
Forms:
Child Study Team Form - Adapt this to handle requests to Child Study Team Members
General Information Form - Useful in providing to Professionals who will be working with and helping you child.
Medical Release Form - To be signed by children between the ages of 14 and 18, preserving parents rights to medical information

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